30 comments on “I really need it..

  1. 2 is completely ignorable. That ship has sailed and wrecked elsewhere, not of our concern.

    But 1 is of note. And the answer depend on two questions. First question is, do you feel a twinge of wanting to return to that ex? And second, Are you looking back at old memories with fond smiles?

    Cause if it’s two yes, it might be necessary to get in touch with that ex. As a preliminary step only.

    • Question no 1, I feel like I wasn’t good enough for her.. As if we’re on two different world and I was expecting her to find someone on her level but she didn’t.. Erm..

      • Be optimistic. At least you had a girlfriend right? As for Q1, if you like her then try to get back together. If you don’t, but care for her, hook her up with someone if you’re bothered. If you’re lazy then just give her comforting words or totally ignore her. Plz reply which one you chose, for I am curious 😀

      • Now me personally, I tend to let bygones be bygones. I still talk to my ex sometimes, but I don’t feel much for her anymore (it kind of helps that she’s a furry now).

        The way I feel about stuff like this is that it’s really not your place to decide if you’re good enough for the other person. It’s the other person’s. Like, what right do you have to decide who is good enough for her and who isn’t? My last girlfriend said that to me sometimes, and it irritates me. If somebody says that to me, it makes me want to say, “Look, it’s up to me to decide who’s good enough. I can date whoever the hell I goddamn want.” If I’m going out with someone, that means I think they’re more than good enough and “on my level”.

        In any case, I don’t think the “6 years” thing really means much. I haven’t had a girlfriend in like 3 years, but it’s not because I’m not interested in anyone, but rather because I don’t really want a girlfriend at this stage in my life (more than halfway through college, might end up moving away after graduation).

        In any case, do you want to get back together with this girl or something? If so…do you feel like you’re “good enough” for her now? Because if you don’t fix that attitude, you’re gonna end up right back where you are again.

  2. for the 2nd, this mean war!!!. Give everything you have to make sure she will change her heart. In other word, just NTR her boyfriend(lol)

  3. for 1, man i had the same ship as u…. and u know what? the hell with her. in the end i just thought of her as a passing time for how she left me (although i did see her after to bang a few times XD )

    for 2: yay, finally shes off of my ass 😀

  4. If you truly like her, get in touch with her, see how her relationship plays out. If they marry, congratulates her, for she is happy. If they break up, give her a shoulder that she can cry on. Either way, she will be happy. That is if you truly like her personality and want her to be happy.

    удачи и до свидания
    Good luck and good bye
    Рича Николаевич Чжан

  5. 1 & 2 are not worth doing or thinking about if it was a clean cup breakup. I mean, it’s none of your business who your ex go out with. You guys are not an item anymore.

  6. Here’s an article to read, possibly watch the TED talk if it helps.
    http://www.businessinsider.com/mathematical-principle-reveals-how-to-get-what-you-want-2015-6

    TL:DR those who pursue often get the better end of the deal.

    if its number 2, she’s moving on. So should you.

    If its number 1, and you still want to get back with her, by all means go ahead. Even if shes too good for you, trust me somebody else won’t feel that way and come in and take her. You don’t want to regret not going after someone.

  7. *SLAP SNOW*
    IF YOU LOVE HER THEN GO F-@KING CHASE HER MAN. WE ONLY GOT 1 LIFE IN THIS WORLD AND YOU MUST SPEND THAT TIME WITH PEOPLE YOU CARE ABOUT CUZ ONE DAY IT EITHER YOU OR THEM THAT WILL DISAPPEAR SO EVEN IF YOU CANT GET BACK WITH HER AT LEAST SHE WILL KNOW YOU CARE FOR HER. WE ONLY HAVE 1 LIFE MAN… 1 DAM SHORT LIFE… TT_TT
    (crying. yet i dont know why.. TT-TT)

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